Everything
Is A Choice
In his book “Only 10s”,
Mark J Silverman says:
“You are never a victim. You
always have a choice.”
Now while he was referring to
prioritising our lives so that we know the difference between what Needs
to be done from what Should be done, the principle applies to all areas
of our lives.
Every single thing we do or
say is based on a choice, there are no exceptions. The question is, will we
choose to become Victims or Victors? The choice is ours.
“You and your results are the
product of somebody else’s habitual thinking.”
Bob Proctor
Bob also said that our results
are never as a consequence of events taking place beyond our minds but are down
to events taking place inside our heads, they are an external expression of how
our minds have been conditioned.
“Your behaviour is causing
your results” he said, “your conditioning is coming from
your behaviour.”
By accepting responsibility
for our results, it helps us make the right decisions leading to the right
actions to gain the right results and we are able, then, to alter the conditioning
within the subconscious mind which is both genetic and environmental.
“The ability to choose is your
greatest power.” - Bob Proctor
I’m
Right and You’re Wrong
So, are you right? Am I right?
Who’s right and who’s wrong? The answer is no-one is right or wrong. Now I’m
sure that will be a bit of a shock for some of you, but the fact of the matter
is, for anything and everything there is no right or wrong way. There is,
however, always a better way, no matter what.
For example, if I were to say
that my method for controlling your thoughts and achieving your goals is the
right way, the right and, therefore, only way, I would be discounting all other
possibilities and calling them wrong and I wouldn’t be making allowances for
future discoveries. Do I have the right to do that?
If, on the other hand, I said
that the method I’m offering is a better way, then I would be acknowledging all
other methods and suggesting mine as an improvement. It also leaves the way
open for someone else to make improvements on my method. That’s how evolution
works. There is no definitive Right or Wrong way, only a Better,
improved way.
You can say something is
correct or incorrect, is that not the same? No, not exactly.
For example, when you learn to
drive a car, every driving instructor has what they perceive to be the correct
way to drive – mirror, indicate, manoeuvre, mirror or indicate, mirror,
manoeuvre, mirror and so on. Every country also has regulations regulating what
they consider to be the correct way to drive within their borders and the
etiquette to follow. These are correct but can be updated and changed.
At one time, back in the early
days of motoring, it was correct to stick your arm out to indicate that you
were about to turn left or right. With the advancement of technology that has
changed and all we need to do is move a lever on our steering columns –
although it would appear many have forgotten how to use it!
However, the correct and only
way to drive a vehicle is to keep it safely on the road in the direction you’re
travelling in and use the correct etiquette for the time and country you’re
driving in.
The point I’m making is this:
To say something is right is to say that you ‘Have’ to do it that way.
As Bob Proctor said, “you don’t have to do anything, it’s a choice.”
Wait a minute, you might say,
what about breathing? You Have to breathe, don’t you? Actually no, you
can choose not to. Obviously that wouldn’t be very beneficial and would cause
extreme discomfort, but it would be your choice.
Everything is a choice.