For many affirmations just don’t work and it causes a lot of frustration. That was certainly the case with me until I discovered Declarative Statements and stopped sabotaging my positive intentions.
Firstly, what are Affirmations? They are positive statements
set in the present tense. An example of an affirmation is:
“I am so
happy and grateful now I am enjoying an amazing level of fitness and health.”
Is there anything wrong with that? On the face of it no, it
seems perfectly ok. Two things, however, need to be considered here. Firstly,
from the aspect of The Universe where you are claiming to be already fit and
healthy, so the said Universe says:
“OK, you’ve got what you want, job done.”
Secondly, from a Law of Attraction perspective, your
subconscious mind would create an opposing statement because it knows what you’re
saying isn’t exactly true, for example:
“Dude, I
saw you in the mirror this morning and you are far from being fit and healthy!”
Don’t get me wrong, affirmations do work for some, just not
for all. Also, as in my case, you may experience some changes but not the
changes you were expecting. Until I discovered Declarative Statements I had
been using affirmations on a daily basis for almost 30 years. I would print
them onto A4 sheets of paper and stick them in all the recommended strategic
places. I would memorise them, repeating them often throughout the day and
before sleeping at night. Yet, still no financial freedom, nice home, dream car
and so on. I did, however, develop great positive habits and thinking!
My hunch is that you’ve experienced something similar and
maybe you’ve even given up on affirmations altogether, thinking they’re a waste
of time or that perhaps you aren’t ‘destined’ to have a great life. Am I right?
With that in mind, what can we say to a) allow the Law of
Attraction to attract a positive result and b) prevent our subconscious minds
from sabotaging our efforts? That’s where Declarative Statements come in and
this is how they work.
Remember, our words form the thoughts which create the
vibrations (moods or feelings) - either positive or negative – which attract
our results – again either positive or negative. Therefore, if we want to
change our results we need to change our vibrations and to change our
vibrations we need to change our thoughts and to change our thoughts we need to
change the words we’re using.
A Declarative Statement is essentially a re-framed affirmation which raises your vibration.
Instead of stating “I Am…” or similar use “I’m in the process of…” and fill in
the blank. For example, if you wanted to attract a much healthier lifestyle you
could say:
“I’m in
the process of attracting a fitter and healthier lifestyle through healthy
eating and regular exercise.”
Even though you’re not stating a ‘clear intention’ as some
purists might say, nevertheless this re-framed wording is accepted by the
subconscious mind as truth and a positive vibe is sent out to be matched by the
Law of Attraction which, in turn, will attract whatever information,
strategies, support, opportunities you need to get, in this example, fitter and healthier.
What I’ve shared here is a stripped-down version of what I
teach in my Deliberate Attraction Strategy Workshops where I go into more
detail however, a simple Declarative Statement such as the one above will work
just as well.
I now use these all the time and am enjoying some surprising
results and it’s my intention for you to use Declarative Statements instead of Affirmations,
so you can stop self-sabotaging your positive actions and truly transform your desires into reality.
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