And Your Why Is?

If I were to ask you what you thought your WHY was, what motivates you to get out of bed in the morning, what keeps you focused throughout the day, you would possibly say  either I don’t know or something along the lines of family, friends or even your work. Am I right?

On the other hand, if I were to ask you what your biggest dream is you would probably say a huge house with land, a Ferrari or Lambo, world travel, holiday homes, a millionaire lifestyle and so on.

These are all fine but they not WHYs, they are goals!

A WHY does more than get you out of bed in the morning, it fires you up. It does more than simply motivate you, it inspires you to greatness. A WHY does more than keep you focused, you’re thinking about it every spare moment you have, it’s an obsession but in a good way. A WHY is something your goals should lead to, the end result, not a stopover along the way.

For example, for over 20 years I had been saying that my WHY was Time and Financial Freedom. I would have all the time I wanted with the money to do it with. Sounds great, right? And I know there are many others who have the same or similar ‘WHYs’. Then in 2014 I was discussing this with a couple of friends, Manuela and Peter Mueller-Meerkatz who are top leaders with Amway, and Peter asked me a simple question which led to a, then, Satori moment. He asked:

“And once you have the time and money freedom, what will you do with it?”

Straightaway I said I would write books. He then suggested that maybe Time and Financial Freedom wasn’t my WHY but a goal. He was right because later, when I reflected and pondered on that, I realised that even writing books wasn’t my true WHY. My WHY was staring me in the face the whole time but I couldn’t see it because I was too busy adopting other people’s WHYs and goals as my own.

My WHY isn’t even the mission I set myself years ago whilst growing up  in Belfast surrounded by all the hate and violence, which was to help people around the world to find real happiness, to help them make the right choices leading them to a life they truly deserved. 

No, my WHY is what I will get from carrying out my ‘Mission’, namely JOY! By helping others discover their Joy, I’ll succeed in attaining mine. I learned that from Michael Losier and in fact he has written a book to help people like you and me to clearly define our WHY. It's called Your Life's Purpose and is certainly well worth reading.

Whoa! Sounds a bit pious and Polly-Anna-ish doesn’t it? Heal the world page by page and find healing myself? Maybe, however I look at it in a different way.  I know I won’t accomplish everything but if my book, and any subsequent books, can make a tiny difference and bring Joy to just one person then I will have fulfilled my  mission and achieved my WHY, even long after I have finished my time on this wonderful rock of ours.

You see, a WHY doesn’t have to be the end - contradicting myself here I know but bear with me -  it can also be an ongoing thing and you can also have more than one strategy to help you accomplish it. Got you really confused now, haven’t I? Look at it this way, there are no real rules when it comes to WHYs, you make your own. If you want just the one, that’s great. If you want more than that, that’s great too. Point is, whatever you choose has to keep you on fire until you achieve it and smouldering as you maintain it.

So, finishing with the question this post asks in the title:  And Your Why Is? 

Doubts Are Creeping In

You know, there’s a difference between exercising patience and wondering if anything is happening. Since my big experience with Law of Attraction, where I attracted around £5,000 (approx. $7,000) in advice and actual funds to prevent my eviction, nothing major has happened.

I’ve attracted stuff, sure, but it’s all been small change, little things, pennies rather than Pounds or Dollars. I’ve attracted things like reduced priced products, free training via podcasts or YouTube, more Social Media interaction, a bargain or two – all bitty stuff in the whole scheme of things, which can be very discouraging.

I was expecting greater results, if I’m being honest, results which would provide definitive proof that I’m heading in the right direction. Proof that shouts out YES the Law of Attraction is dealing with my order, or orders in this case, and yet – next to diddly squat.

Then, I’m reminded of something I heard on a podcast, no longer remember which one, however I do remember this one point: Always be grateful for what you receive, regardless whether big or small. At least, that was the essence of the message. It also reminded me of what that great teacher, Jesus, also once said when he advised us to have Faith in both small and great things. Basically, both are saying the same thing.

If we are displaying gratitude for only the major stuff and disparaging the minor achievements, we are not doing ourselves any favours. Look at it this way.

We ask the Universe/Law of Attraction for more money. We see a penny lying on the path and we say to ourselves, “I’m not picking that up, that’s beneath me, I don’t need it.” Now, the Law of Attraction reacts to that by matching your vibration. At that particular moment in time you are giving off a negative vibration towards money, the Law of Attraction matches that and guess what? You don’t get more money in your life, your request is effectively denied.

By refusing the penny you are actually telling the Law of Attraction that you don’t want money. Don’t forget, the Law of Attraction doesn’t know it’s only a penny, it does know how you feel about money in that instance. So, you can imagine the Law of Attraction saying something like: “Hey, you asked for money, here’s money. You don’t want it? OK, you don’t want money, your wish is my command!” And it obeys, because the Law of Attraction is very obedient, it always obeys the Vibes you give out.

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So, yes, I’m not attracting the major stuff I’ve asked for, however I am very grateful for all the little things I am attracting along the way. I use the Abundance Journal to record all my Attractions on a daily basis and then I write them out and express gratitude for them in my Daily Journal. It’s actually amazing what you can uncover to be grateful for, once you start thinking about all the things that have happened throughout your day such as: finding that ideal parking space, getting a 50% discount on a shopping item, a smile from a grumpy neighbour, getting a seat on a crowded train – all evidence that the Law of Attraction is working on your behalf.

Yes doubts are creeping in, they always do with me because I’m results oriented. I like to see constant results and I do start to wonder, when there are no apparent indications that I’m on the right track, if I am indeed doing the right thing. Part of being human I guess. 

However all proof, small or otherwise, is evidence that the Law of Attraction is working on my behalf and that helps to dispel the doubts. Doubts are conquered by proof, but we have to look for that proof – sometimes with a magnifying glass!

Humility with Swag!

Randy Gage is one of my long time mentors, I've been learning from him for about 15 years now. He does a lot of coaching, both with Network Marketers and with Business Owners plus anyone who basically wants to improve their lot in life. He does a weekly message on his YouTube channel, Prosperity TV, and this is the latest episode which I felt was relevant right now. Enjoy!

My Personal Law of Attraction Journey - Update #1

In this video I share an update which is significant. Each month, on the 23rd of the month, I receive my Military Pension of £503 - approx. $710 at the time of writing, in the video I'm about $150 off! Same as the figure of £2500 I mention, at the moment that's about $3500.

Point is, that's my only regular income at this time, however I am in the process of attracting greater Abundance so I know that will change. So what am I doing to change that? Well, not sitting around on my bum waiting for something to magical happen, that's for sure!

I'm refocusing on my Network Marketing business which I've let slide due to various reasons. I'm not sure why as it's a great opportunity however, throughout 2017, I was just getting frustrated as I wasn't getting to where I wanted to be, so I guess that had a significant impact. Now, using Law of Attraction properly, I'm looking forward to much better results.

I'm also almost finished my book, The Happiness Secret, which I intend to be completed and published on Amazon by the end of this month. At the moment I'm editing and proof reading, taking a bit longer than anticipated.

I've now got a much improved coaching/teaching programme to offer and will start promoting that shortly. I am a certified Life Purpose Coach as well as a Reiki Master/Teacher and Unique & Bespoke Coach and my new programme will reflect elements from all of those in a unique blend to help people to not only uncover their true purpose in life, but also how to realise it.

So, that's Update #1 done, watch out for more coming soon. If you subscribe or join my new Facebook Group #JezUpYourLife to be kept up to date.

What You Don't Know About Me #1

As we are going to be travelling together on this Law of Attraction journey of discovery, I think it's only fair you get to know who your travelling companion is, don't you? I mean, you don't know me from Adam, yet I'm inviting you to spend some of your valuable time with me! 

Come to think of it, as I'm going to be sharing my most personal and likely vulnerable moments with you, I would appreciate you sharing your experiences with me in return, whether here in the blog comments or in the #JezUpYourLife Facebook Group. That's fair, isn't it?

OK, so this is what I'm going to do. Every now and then I'll post a "What You Don't Know About Me" post giving you an Insight into who I am and where I'm coming from in terms of events from my past. I'll also share my vision, if you like, of where I want to go, what I want to do and where I intend to be at the end of these 12 months and a bit - which will be at the end of March 2019. 

Now let's get started and here's what you don't know about me:

I'm 60 years of age, will be 61 in October, been married and divorced twice with the last divorce in 1993 and have a son & daughter from those marriages. Despite several relationships since then, I've not as yet found someone I want to settle down with - did come close a couple times though.

I was born in Norfolk, England and then my Stepdad took us to Belfast, Northern Ireland where I grew up and got schooled during everything that was happening there in the 1960's and 70's. I spend almost 18 months living in London before returning back to Belfast and eventually taking the Queen's Shilling. I served 14 years as a Royal Engineer which I thoroughly enjoyed and, if it hadn't have been for the cutbacks in the 1990's, I would have stayed on for the full 22 years. As it happened, I took voluntary redundancy because I wanted to stay in Germany and be close to my daughter.


Including 7 years Army time, I spent a total of 22 years in Germany before returning back to UK in 2007 to settle here in Rugby, a market town in Warwickshire, England - also known as the home of the sport with the same name. 

This short video shows the prestigious Rugby School, over 450 years old now and where Rugby Football had it's start as a sport.


So, there you have a little snapshot for now, upcoming posts may be longer and perhaps more detailed, obviously depending on subject matter! Looking forward to your comments and see you next time.      

My Personal Law of Attraction Journey - The Beginning

Over the next 12 months I'll be documenting my personal Law of Attraction Journey and this video is the beginning.

I share how I started with this particular style of Law of Attraction which Michael Losier teaches. It's an introduction to a 12-month journey I'll be undertaking, documenting my experiences - warts and all - along the way both here and on my YouTube channel 

Jez Sadler

The idea is that we can learn and grow together over the next 12 months as I share exactly what tools and techniques I’m using so you can use them too. All I ask is that you share your experiences in the comments or in my newly launched Facebook Group – #JezUpYourLife - where we can create an exclusive community all sharing this journey together.

I’ve been an ardent student of Personal Development since 1990 and years later got into the Law of Attraction via The Secret and other sources, however Michael Losier’s style of teaching, and what he teaches in his book and in his Facebook Lives, resonates with me more than anything I’ve been exposed to before and it’s starting to work in my life. In the video I mention how I was able to use the Law of Attraction to prevent me from being evicted, which should have happened on 13 March 2018, and that’s what has prompted me to document my personal Law of Attraction journey. I want to create further proof that what happened regarding my eviction wasn’t just a one-off or ‘pure coincidence’ and at the same time teach others about the Law of Attraction.

More about that eviction and other stuff about me will be revealed as we go along, so look out for my What You Don’t Know About Me posts as well.  I’ll try and post something daily on here and make at least one YouTube video per week. Other videos, my Coaching Insights as I call them, are previous Instagram videos which I recorded throughout 2017, so it won’t just be pure Law of Attraction stuff – don’t want to bore you after all!

Hope you’ve enjoyed this post and I look forward to your comments!

Is Your House A Happy One?

By that question I’m not referring to where you live, although that could also contribute. No, I’m talking about the ‘House of your Mind’, how happy are you inside that particular dwelling?

We all get plagued by negative thoughts, in fact over 80% of our thoughts are negative, and many of us spend a lot of time ‘cleaning’ our houses, doing what we can to rid ourselves of those unwanted ‘tenants’. However, what are we replacing them with?

The illustration I use in this short video is the one the Great Teacher spoke of in the Scriptures, where he asked what happens when we rid ourselves of our ‘demons’ and we leave the ‘house’ empty. Well, those evicted demons come back with all their squatter friends and take up residence once more, only this time there’s lots more of them and they’re creating even more havoc in our lives.

The solution? Once you’ve cleaned your house, evicted those unwanted tenants, get your ideal tenants in ASAP! Only accept positive thoughts, feelings and beliefs. And if a Neggy Tenant shows up? Call the Bailiffs!

Mind Your Language

Minding our language is important when it comes to these 3 little words 'Don't' 'Not' & 'No'. Words form what we say and think which, in turn, create how we feel - our Vibe - and that is then matched by the Law of Attraction bringing us our results.

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For example, if I were to say "I don't like living like this, never having enough money to pay bills or to buy things I want", despite my positive intentions I am creating a negative Vibe which is then matched by the Law of Attraction and I end up getting more of what I don't want and a lot less of what I do want.

So what can be done? Michael Losier, in his book Law of Attraction, says we should reset our Vibes by asking, "So, what do I want?" every time we catch ourselves using 'Don't' 'Not' or 'No' in a negative way. To do that we can follow this process:

• To change our Results we have to change our Vibe.
• To change our Vibe we have to change our Thoughts.
• To change our Thoughts we have to change the words we use.
• To change our Words we have to be Mindful of our Language. 

This obviously takes practice and you may not notice any immediate change in your circumstances, however you will notice how much better you feel just by asking "So, what do I want?", you'll notice a rise in your Vibration. The next step would be to declare what you DO want so, for example, using the above illustration I would declare "I want enough money to take care of my needs and more." I would then use a 3-Step process to put that into motion.

I won't go into the details in this post, however the 3-Step process is:

1. Get Clarity - what is it you want?
2. State your Ideal Desire - based on your Clarity
3. Allow it to happen - overcoming doubts

These will be the subject of an upcoming post or you can get Michael Losier's book, Law of Attraction, where he explains how it works in more detail.

By Minding our Language and eliminating - or reducing at the very least - our use of 'Don't' 'Not' & 'No', we greatly enhance our chances of attracting more of what we want into our lives. Just try it, you'll soon experience the difference. 

I Attracted This

It's not a great big win, but a win nonetheless. I attracted this last month, shortly after I learned how to write Desire Statements.
Thing is, I only wrote my Desire Statement the night before on the Friday. That's how quick the Law of Attraction can work.
I'll cover how to write Desire Statements in another post soon. 😁

Law of Attraction Job Description

Are you working for someone? If you are then you most likely have a job description embedded in your contract. This could be as simple as a few sentences to a more complex description pages long.

Did you know the Law of Attraction also has a job description? It does, and it's not even a full sentence long. Two words. That's all, just two words: Match Vibrations. How's that for a job description? 

You see, the Law of Attraction isn't concerned about what you think, say, touch, taste, hear, see or anything along those lines. In fact, it's not even aware of what you're doing. What it is aware of, and what it responds to, is the vibration you're giving off at any one time. All it's concerned about is whether that vibration is positive or negative so it can match it.

So simple, yet so effective.