How Real is Your Money?

Sadly, I have to inform you that your money isn’t real – it’s a concept thought up by us thousands of years ago as a form of exchange for goods we couldn’t barter for. It started out as trinkets, then precious metals and stones until, a few centuries ago, clever Money Lenders invented the IOU which we know as bank notes today.

Money does have power, though, because it is also Energy. That being the case, we can attract Energy, right? That means we can Deliberately Attract the Energy that is money into our lives – or bank accounts! Randy Gage has made a cracking video which explains the Energy of Money – I’ll see you on the other side!

So, Randy’s main point, as I see it, is that we should treat Money with respect and, by doing so, we will manifest more of it. OK, so maybe you aren’t as OCD as Randy with sorting out which way round your Notes are facing etc, I know I’m not as fastidious as that, however we can still make sure they’re treated respectively and not just shoved into a wallet or purse – or even a back pocket!

Deliberately Attracting money is also showing respect because you’re not demanding the cash to flow into your accounts as if it’s a God-Given Right, instead you Allow the Universe, and Law of Attraction, to work on your behalf, orchestrating and unfolding whatever needs to happen to fulfil your Desire.

See you next time

Jez Sadler

Welcome to the Don’t, Not & No Show!

OK, it's showtime so let’s get started with the first game! 

Using Google – or the browser of your choice – type the following into your search bar: No Football and count how many results you get which are non-football related.

So, on to Game Number Two: All I’m going to do is ask you to Not think of the Eiffel Tower and describe the first image that came into your mind.

And now, to complete the show, the Final Game: You see a sign on a park bench that says Don’t Touch, Wet Paint – what’s your first reaction?

For the Google game, my hunch is you couldn’t find any non-football results, certainly not on the first few pages anyway, am I right?

For Game Number Two, would I be right in saying you immediately had an image of the Eiffel Tower in your mind?

And in the Final Game, is it possible your initial reaction would be to touch the bench just to see if the paint was really wet?

You can see how powerfully suggestive these three little words are and yet we find it very difficult to reduce or eliminate them from our vocabulary. You might be asking: “Well, so what? Why would I need to?” The answer is simple, because they generate a negative vibration which overrides the positive vibration you are trying to have matched by the Law of Attraction.

For example, many of us say No worries, No problem, I’m not quitting, Don’t jump in puddles and so on and we get annoyed because the opposite happens – we have worries and problems, we quit, our child jumps in muddy puddles.

There is a simple way to rectify that, which I’ll share shortly. However, here’s a difficulty I’ve come across when it comes to, as Michael Losier suggests, reducing or eliminating Don’t, Not and Know. It’s so damned hard! They creep up on you when you least expect it and, quite often, the alternative doesn’t always readily spring to mind.

So, what to do. When you catch yourself saying or thinking Don’t, Not or No simply ask yourself this question: “So, what do I want?”

 For example, let’s take Game 1 – You want to avoid any posts about Football in your Google search, therefore the obvious answer would be to be more specific in your search. So, what do I want? – Posts about cricket, or squash or some other sport, so you enter those terms in the search bar.

For Game 2 the same applies, be more specific. I’m not going to think of the Eiffel Tower – So, what do I want? I want to think about the Arc d’Triumph.

For Don’t, what you want is to prevent your child from doing something they shouldn’t, so a simple Stop would work to get their attention – although I’d let them jump in puddles! With Don’t it’s also a case of reframing the words or sentence. Don’t touch, Wet Paint could become Wet paint ruins your clothes or something like that.

The idea really is to help you become more aware of what you’re saying and thinking, therefore by asking yourself So, what do I want? whenever Don’t, Not & No arise will help you to think and speak in a more positive way, creating positive vibes which are then matched by the Law of Attraction.

Getting Personal - Something You Don't Know About Me

I used to be a bit of a worrier, mainly about being liked and respected by others. When I think back on it now I can see I had some confidence and self-esteem issues however, back then, I blamed it on my circumstances. #VictimStory

For example, from my late teens onwards, I worried about how people would view me because of my lack of academic qualifications. Most of friends were from good homes and had been to good schools, were at University or in good jobs and I was a council estate boy, which led to an inferiority complex which lasted for decades.

Despite being immersed in Personal Development in all it’s shapes and forms, I was unable to shake that feeling of inferiority off and it prevented me from applying for certain jobs or taking certain courses of action which would have improved my life, especially financially, in many ways. I held back because I thought I wasn’t qualified enough, even though I knew I was up to the task or had more than enough experience to lead a project and so on.

I was in my 40’s before I really started to work on my issue and that’s when I came to the realization that I didn’t need qualifications to be the person I wanted to be or to do the work I wanted to do. I was inspired by people such as Les Brown and Randy Gage who came from nothing, had little formal schooling and yet had ‘made it’ to become highly successful and sought-after people.

These days I no longer worry as much. I still have concerns, however, I know they are of no consequence to me unless I can actually do something about them. What’s the point of me losing sleep over what some politician did or didn’t do, or how another country is treating its citizens, or if a piece of space rock may or may not enter the Earth’s atmosphere?

That doesn’t mean I don’t have opinions, because I do, and I’ll voice them too if I feel the need, but if there’s something that’s beyond my control, I know that me having numerous sleepless nights isn’t going to make one iota of a difference to it.

This also means I can watch the News without reacting, without getting all het up over some political tweet or diplomatic gaff and the likes. My worrying or reaction won’t change what’s already happened, therefore there’s no point in letting all that stuff get to me. If I don’t like what I’m watching on TV I use my remote to either put the sound on mute or change channel. Simple.

And what about my inferiority complex? Gone. I allow myself to Be Me and I find that comes across better than trying to be something I’m not.

Being #authentic, #genuine, more open, has brought more opportunities into my life than being the Actor I used to be. Yes, I still have my issues, but now I know how to handle them in a more positive way. I still want to be liked and respected, who doesn’t? Now, however, I’m no longer worried about it. Whether anyone likes me or not is their choice, and I accept and respect that.

What’s Included in Your Vibrational Bubble?

First of all, what is a Vibrational Bubble? There are several terms used to describe it including: Aura, Biometric Field, Bio Magnetic Field and so on. It’s something we all have and can be as close to us as a few millimetres and as far away as nine meters or more and it consists of pure energy.

Source: Google. Copyright: Michael J Losier

Your Vibrational Bubble, a term coined by Michael Losier, isn’t inactive or passive, it’s constantly moving, shifting, waxing and waning as it reacts to your own personal vibrations of either negativity or positivity.

Quantum Energy vibrates, and the speed of the vibrations determine the visibility and solidity of any object. For example, air is invisible because it vibrates at a very high – or fast – frequency, whereas a rock vibrates at a much lower – or slower – frequency and is, therefore, more solid. We are somewhere in between, as we have both seen and unseen elements – our bodies and our Minds, for example.

What we focus on, give attention too, is closest to us and therefore is included within our Vibrational Bubbles. This includes all our thoughts, feelings, moods, desires, goals and so on. Everything else is outside our Vibrational Bubble and, therefore, has no direct effect on us – unless we allow it into our Bubble!

That means every time you have a positive thought and start to take positive action in line with that, that’s included in your Bubble. However, the same goes for anything negative. Why is this important? Because the definition of the Law of Attraction states: “Whatever you give your Time, Energy or Focus to, you will attract more of, whether Positive or Negative.” This is where many get confused.

Most people believe all you have to do is think positive and great things will happen, you’ll manifest your Desires and so on, however many people get frustrated because those Desires are not manifested in spite of all the apparent positivity in their lives. I know, because that was me until 7 months ago.

In his book “Law of Attraction”, Michael Losier explains:

“This happens because they are sending a negative vibe non-deliberately simply through their observation of what they are currently getting.”

How does that work? Let’s say you are trying to attract a better job, more pay and improved conditions than where you currently are. If you are telling yourself, or others, how much you dislike working where you are and you can’t see how it will improve etc, the Law of Attraction will respond by giving you more of the same. It doesn’t know you want better at that point, because you are focusing – or observing – on what you currently have.

Source: Google. Copyright: Michael J Losier

What can you do to change that? In this scenario, as part of your positive thinking and action strategies, which you are including in your Vibrational Bubble every time you read your Desire and Allowing Statements, also view your current workplace in a more positive way. Imagine you’re in your ideal job with ideal pay and conditions. The Law of Attraction doesn’t know you’re Daydreaming or imagining, it only matches the vibrations you give off, tunes into those frequencies, and attracts more of what you want into your life.

So, include more of what you want in your Vibrational Bubble and less of what you don’t want.

See Yourself Successful

Jez