How Real is Your Money?

Sadly, I have to inform you that your money isn’t real – it’s a concept thought up by us thousands of years ago as a form of exchange for goods we couldn’t barter for. It started out as trinkets, then precious metals and stones until, a few centuries ago, clever Money Lenders invented the IOU which we know as bank notes today.

Money does have power, though, because it is also Energy. That being the case, we can attract Energy, right? That means we can Deliberately Attract the Energy that is money into our lives – or bank accounts! Randy Gage has made a cracking video which explains the Energy of Money – I’ll see you on the other side!

So, Randy’s main point, as I see it, is that we should treat Money with respect and, by doing so, we will manifest more of it. OK, so maybe you aren’t as OCD as Randy with sorting out which way round your Notes are facing etc, I know I’m not as fastidious as that, however we can still make sure they’re treated respectively and not just shoved into a wallet or purse – or even a back pocket!

Deliberately Attracting money is also showing respect because you’re not demanding the cash to flow into your accounts as if it’s a God-Given Right, instead you Allow the Universe, and Law of Attraction, to work on your behalf, orchestrating and unfolding whatever needs to happen to fulfil your Desire.

See you next time

Jez Sadler

What’s Included in Your Vibrational Bubble?

First of all, what is a Vibrational Bubble? There are several terms used to describe it including: Aura, Biometric Field, Bio Magnetic Field and so on. It’s something we all have and can be as close to us as a few millimetres and as far away as nine meters or more and it consists of pure energy.

Source: Google. Copyright: Michael J Losier

Your Vibrational Bubble, a term coined by Michael Losier, isn’t inactive or passive, it’s constantly moving, shifting, waxing and waning as it reacts to your own personal vibrations of either negativity or positivity.

Quantum Energy vibrates, and the speed of the vibrations determine the visibility and solidity of any object. For example, air is invisible because it vibrates at a very high – or fast – frequency, whereas a rock vibrates at a much lower – or slower – frequency and is, therefore, more solid. We are somewhere in between, as we have both seen and unseen elements – our bodies and our Minds, for example.

What we focus on, give attention too, is closest to us and therefore is included within our Vibrational Bubbles. This includes all our thoughts, feelings, moods, desires, goals and so on. Everything else is outside our Vibrational Bubble and, therefore, has no direct effect on us – unless we allow it into our Bubble!

That means every time you have a positive thought and start to take positive action in line with that, that’s included in your Bubble. However, the same goes for anything negative. Why is this important? Because the definition of the Law of Attraction states: “Whatever you give your Time, Energy or Focus to, you will attract more of, whether Positive or Negative.” This is where many get confused.

Most people believe all you have to do is think positive and great things will happen, you’ll manifest your Desires and so on, however many people get frustrated because those Desires are not manifested in spite of all the apparent positivity in their lives. I know, because that was me until 7 months ago.

In his book “Law of Attraction”, Michael Losier explains:

“This happens because they are sending a negative vibe non-deliberately simply through their observation of what they are currently getting.”

How does that work? Let’s say you are trying to attract a better job, more pay and improved conditions than where you currently are. If you are telling yourself, or others, how much you dislike working where you are and you can’t see how it will improve etc, the Law of Attraction will respond by giving you more of the same. It doesn’t know you want better at that point, because you are focusing – or observing – on what you currently have.

Source: Google. Copyright: Michael J Losier

What can you do to change that? In this scenario, as part of your positive thinking and action strategies, which you are including in your Vibrational Bubble every time you read your Desire and Allowing Statements, also view your current workplace in a more positive way. Imagine you’re in your ideal job with ideal pay and conditions. The Law of Attraction doesn’t know you’re Daydreaming or imagining, it only matches the vibrations you give off, tunes into those frequencies, and attracts more of what you want into your life.

So, include more of what you want in your Vibrational Bubble and less of what you don’t want.

See Yourself Successful

Jez

Sometimes You Just Have to Take a Time Out

I burned out in 2014 and a lot of that had to do with the Hustle & Grind that’s so popular today. I’ve now learned to leave the chasing after Unicorns to others, that’s not my journey.

In November 2014 I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety issues. I ended up taking 2 months off work and then going back much too early thinking I could cope. However, although my then working environment played a part in the run up to that, it wasn’t the only factor. It was a culmination of years of just simply doing too much and pushing myself too hard and beating myself to bits because I wasn’t getting the results I expected.

For years I had a full-time job plus a Network Marketing Business plus a Reiki & Coaching practice plus a few other things as well. I Hustled and Grinded all my spare time – long hours creating posts, blog content, emails, dealing with leads (most of which were useless), attending several Business Networking events a week, weekend conferences, numerous webinars and workshops and training and… and… and…! My hunch is there are many of you out there who can identify with that.

I guess If I had been getting the results I wanted then the story would have been different – I’d be writing about my success and how I got them and so on. Truth is, I failed every time. No matter what I tried it ended up as a dead-end street. That just increased the frustration because I knew I was doing all the right things, making all the right noises and yet - Nada! (My Spidey Sense is saying that there’s one or two out there who have, or still are, experiencing exactly that.) So, in 2015 I basically took a step back, but not through choice.

I burned out - not massively, but enough. After returning to my former work I had another attack a couple of months later. You know those messages the Universe sends you from time to time, sometimes very subtle, other times like someone’s smacked you with a plank of wood? This was one of the latter and I didn’t go back to that environment. I found other work, not the best of jobs but it paid bills. Gave me time to get myself together.

I was still involved with my Network Marketing and Coaching, but my heart was no longer in it. The passion had gone, I was just going through the motions. In fact, I was only going to the B2B meetings for the social aspect! In time that went too as my membership ran out and I could no longer afford to renew it. So, I retreated further and by the end of 2016 I had come to pretty much a standstill – apart from some ‘Stick Poking’ and ‘Face Showing’ activities.

Bringing things up to the present, I feel I have fully recovered, truly recharged my batteries and can now see a much brighter future ahead. That has a lot to do with the way I now view things. I can now see that, back then, I was pushing myself too hard – out of desperation and need rather than providing a value driven service. Now I have a much more relaxed approach and I believe that has a lot to do with the recent Law of Attraction training I’ve been exposed to and how it’s become an integral part of how I live today.

I have a renewed passion, however it’s way less ego based than before, my perspective has changed – less Self, more Others. “How can I best be of service today?” is what I now ask rather than “Who can I sponsor into my team?” or “How many clients am I aiming for this week?” and leave all the ‘Workings Out’ to the Universe.

That’s not to say I no longer have goals, because I do, however the pressure to achieve them is no longer there. I no longer chase after them and beat myself up because I didn’t reach them. Some goals I haven’t even put a date on! I give them the Attention they deserve and Allow them to happen and guess what? I am getting results and they are the results which are ideal for me.

So, Hustle & Grind all you want if that’s your thing. If it’s working, then Cool Beans! If not, them maybe a different approach would be more ideal.

Until next time,

Jez  

Allowing Even a Little Doubt Can Scupper a Big Dream

Hands up if this is you: You have a dream, or a desire, and you would really like to achieve it and then you tell yourself that it probably won’t happen because you’re too old or too fat or too young or broke or it’s out of your league – does that sound familiar? In this post I’m sharing two tools which will allow you to get rid of any doubts like that and stop them from scuppering your dreams.

Doubts are dream killers, desire sinkers, goal blockers. Even the smallest of niggly little doubts can throw up a wall stopping you in your tracks. Even the smallest of doubts can, and do, keep you from achieving anything worthwhile in your life. They can stop you from applying for that great job, from getting to know your soulmate, from passing your driving test, getting that promotion and – well, I’m sure you get the idea.

So why do we have doubts if they seemingly have nothing better to do than stop us from doing the stuff we want? Well not all doubts are negative, there are those which are positive and actually protect us. Doubts come from our subconscious minds and form part of our Fight or Flight system and back when we had more to worry about than who’s saying what about us on Facebook, they helped to prevent us from wild beasts, rival tribes and eating weird plants. They created a wariness for certain potentially dangerous situations and worked with our intuition to keep us from harm.

In our modern age they still carry out similar duties and can protect us from all kinds of dangers – still plenty of baddies and weird plants out there! However, as such, they also do their best to keep us in our Comfort Zones so when we want to try something new, in kicks our subconscious minds with a little niggle or two. If we take notice of them, and we mostly do, we use the doubt as an excuse, as a justification for not doing what we really want to do. My hunch is, many of you are nodding your heads right now and are asking, “Well what can we do to stop these doubts?”

In his book “Law of Attraction”, Michael Losier lists 10 Allowing Tools which are designed for that very purpose. I’m going to share one of the tools from the book plus another which isn’t on the list. Are you ready to plug that hole and get sailing off into your desired new adventure?

This first Allowing Tool is simply called Allowing Statements. Here’s how they work.

Let’s say you’ve started a new business and you’re in the process of attracting your ideal clients and you’ve written Desire Statements to that effect. As you read through them one of them causes a little doubt to surface. 

For example, it could be “I’m excited at the thought of serving my ideal clients” or “I love the thought of meeting my ideal clients at Networking Meetings” but little Doubty Tom pipes up and says – “Yeah, if I get any!” or “As if that’s going to work! Remember last time when…”  

Allowing Statements help to eliminate that doubt by helping you understand what’s possible. In order for these to work effectively simply follow these four guidelines:

1.      Ask: Is there anyone on the planet having or doing this now?
2.  If so, how many today, yesterday, tomorrow, next week etc.
3. Make it believable.
4. Exclude any reference to yourself.

With the above examples in mind, here are a couple of Allowing Statements around attracting your ideal clients:

Today someone just met an ideal client at a Networking Meeting.

Around the world millions of clients are receiving great service.

1000’s of new business owners in the UK meet their ideal clients at Networking events.

Get the picture?

OK, let’s move on to next Allowing Tool  which is called “What I like best about…”

This tool is cool because you get to write lots of positive stuff about your favourite client, customer, workmate, employee and so on. Here’s how it works.

Let’s say, in this scenario, you are in the process of attracting your ideal job. Your feelings about your Desire Statements are pretty good, however you would like that little bit of added assurance – just in case (Note the Doubt here?). You have a good idea of how your ideal job should fit into your life, so you take a sheet of paper and you write the heading: Here’s what I like about my ideal job (obviously you would be a bit more specific). Then list what you expect or want, for example:

I love that my boss really cares about  their staff

I get paid well

My hours are flexible and I can take care of the children easily

The work is very enjoyable

There are great opportunities for promotion

And so on.

The thing is, the Law of Attraction doesn’t know if you’re writing fantasy or truth, it doesn’t see what you’re writing, hear what you’re saying or know what you’re thinking. It only knows what you are feeling, what you are vibrating, about any given situation or thing or person and will strive to match that vibration because that’s its job description: Match Vibrations.

That means you can use these tools, and the others in Michael’s book, to help attract anything you want into your life – providing you are prepared to Allow it and trust the Law of Attraction to orchestrate and unfold whatever needs to happen to attract and allow your Desires to sail into your port. Allowing tools help provide proof and proof always conquers doubts and stops your dreams from being scuppered.

Until next time
Jez